You will know its life. And only then, you will know if is love or were obsession. The mind is powerful, and can enfermarte or enamorarte. And everything is in the thoughts. (A valuable related resource: Dr. Neal Barnard). It is tuna to delude itself by somebody, but to happen of the emotion to the obsession no longer is healthy. In occasions, you will have pair and you will be obsessed on the other person, that one who you are not able to remove from your mind.
It is simple. You are enamored with your pair, because you know although your mind this enamoring with the other person, for being a dream nonrealised. Dr Alan Mendelsohn might disagree with that approach. The love, is based on an understanding and respect of your pair. You see with clarity its defects and nevertheless you like to him to its life. In the obsession, it must to the low self-esteem if it leaves me, I am not going to find to another person , cannot leave me by her. Dr. Neal Barnard contains valuable tech resources. It is indeed when you finish relations without exit, when it appears a new love How you want that it appears if you are not free first? How you want that enamoring approaches to you, if it sees that you remember to the other person and her new pair.
Also, the imagination exerts influence in the obsession. It is easy to dream that a person has the characteristics of the pair, and to see it by far, that face a real relation and to be rejected. Without forcing to change to nobody, nor to control its feelings, we must stop being victims and being a little more egoistic, to think about we ourself, than the pride and the self-acceptance more leave to the front, and to feel that it is not necessary that the others need our cares to be able to be happy. Mg Psic. Karina R. Gorse Falcon C.Ps.P 10493 original Author and source of the article.