Descordar of itself exactly is a knife of two gumes. Which amongst vocs does not know somebody or knew somebody that makes look like to have as only function of the life to descordar of the others? When you say right, to another person she is saying left, or when you choose white another one says that he is better black. You will be able to say that these attitudes are only one question of preferences, but the preferences do not cause sensations of distress, of depreciation or of anger, the preferences only disclose preferences. But the discord cause unnecessary feelings that are produced by behaviors hostile, and these are induced for external actions, many provoked times for that only descordam to remain contrary, in disharmony with the rhythm of the healthful convivncia. The worse quandary is as to deal thus with people, that they only descordam to be I oppose its opinion or its choices? First it understands the reasons that take the other to have this attitude rude; it understands because you leave yourself to shake for the words pronounced for the other; desconstrua the phrases and its thoughts that provoke bad sensations. It does not matter if who only makes disagrees it not to agree to its opinions and choices, what it matters is as you perceive in this situation and as you are giving emphasis excessively what the other says. It remembers when was child they renomearam and you with a pseudonym, one, nickname, and you it did not like and it demonstrated that it did not like because really it did not like? He imagines if at this time you did not value what she heard that she was I oppose its mental health, if you had desconstrudo the weight of the offence, to be able of the word and mainly its auto wrong defense of that you only attacked you why understood as something very comprometedor! Certainly you would not have suffered in such a way.
Question: What to make when everything that we want it is everything that we cannot have? Reply: It stops of drama and it starts to want what you can have! Which is? It is not guided by its heart because it can be deceived, but guides its heart and the things, good They will not be more easy, however less complicated. It knows why? The heart has craze of wanting what it cannot. There you with the colloquy come that ' ' I go to make what corao' says mine; ' , then it starts since already if preparing to be a NOTHING! To make NOTHING! You pray! Its heart does not speak. if spoke, would lie sufficiently. Here it is what it must be made (in my conception, with which nobody it needs to agree rsrsrs): It wants little and it acts more. Nothing does not advance to want, to want and to want, in the end of the accounts this goes to be everything that you will have made. There you question: the dreams? Where they are in this its pessimistic vision of world? There I answer: The dreams cannot make nothing for you. The dreams do not go to study you there to be doctor, lawyer that is what he will be that you want to be when to grow.
The dreams do not go to buy that car that you want nor the trip that its wife in such a way desires. The dreams, my friend, do not go to write a book and public – lo for you. Not exactly. It is not a pessimistic vision, and yes, realist (In the truth, this it is the excuse that all pessimistic uses not to say that it is pessimistic. It is not incredible what a disillusionment, or two, makes with people? The world starts to have another color.